It is okay to be pretty. So many feminists have this idea that a woman taking care of herself, being in her best physical shape, wearing makeup, whatever- is a negative thing. That she should be known not on how she looks but all the other qualities she has. But I want you to know that IT IS OKAY TO BE PRETTY (and to want to be pretty.) You can be a feminist who loves men, who loves looking nice and feeling healthy and who loves painting her nails. The whole idea of feminism is that you can be whatever the heck you want to be with equal entitlement as a man has to what he wants to be. You can be a feminist and a stay at home mom whose finically supported by a spouse. You can be a feminist who gets her nails done. You can be a feminist who loves high heels and short skirts.
You can be whatever the hell you want to be. Just be you + be a good person. Brought to you by a feminist who loves men, red lipstick, short skirts, breasts, being naked and lots of other girl things. You're a babe, remember that.